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So What!!!

So what!! Do you ever think about going somewhere or doing something but something stops you dead in your tracks? That little voice in your head says 'you can't do that', 'people will laugh at you', 'you'll look stupid if you do that', 'what will people thing if you wear that'. Do you know that voice I'm talking about?


As I write this blog it is International Women's day, so that makes it a perfect day for me to say to YOU, 'well so what!!!' If you try that thing, wear that outfit, go to that place and it doesn't work out, then whats going to happen? Probably nothing at all, the world certainly isn't going to end.


As I have got older, my ability to make my own mind up about thing, create my own style, do what makes me happy, has grown to the point that I now think So What!! Don't get me wrong, there are still times when that little voice tries its hardest to be heard and sometimes it wins, but I am learning to ignore it. I have personally been through anxieties and a depression and when I look back at those times, they were brought on by me not being able to be me and trying to please others all of the time. I am certainly NOT going to go back to being that person again. Never!!


Think about a flower. Even though the flower next to it may look brighter or stand taller, but every flower still blooms in to its own form of beauty... you are that flower!


So my message to you, is to do what makes you happy, wear those clothes if they make you comfortable. If you want to learn something new, then go ahead and do it. If you have always wanted to do something then go and do it. Live YOUR life, not someone elses


I'd love to know what your thoughts are. Do you think 'so what' now that you are getting older? What made you change?


It's time to reveal your inner strengths & beauty


Kerry x


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